Love is a field of observation.
Watch what your partner does when you are tired, and what goes unsaid when you come home late. This book gives you the grid: four ways of loving, and the keys to read the person beside you.
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Love is a field of observation
Think of what they do when you are tired, or of the way the table goes quiet before anyone explains why. Each gesture carries a signal, and it slips by when you have no grid to read it with.
Bruno decides before you finish asking. Lea gives until she forgets herself. Valerie keeps the world steady, even at the cost of quietly disappearing into it. Marc understands, or aches to, often before he knows what he himself is feeling.
What you will find inside
- The four ways of lovingIdentify yours and your partner's, and stop mistaking a different language for indifference.
- Read the unsaidThe signals that reveal what a partner is not saying, in gesture, timing, and silence.
- Translate before it escalatesMost fights between two people who love each other come from failed translations.
- A two-minute profile testA grid that makes the invisible readable, from ordinary evenings to the conversations neither of you has started.
Now read yourself
This method is about reading other people. Start with you: the MYMOONOVA DISC test gives you your own profile in two minutes, no sign-up.
Take the free DISC testReader Reviews
"This book found me at the right time. My husband and I were in a rough stretch and neither of us could say why. Reading the chapter on silences together, out loud, on a Sunday, did more for us than six months of trying to talk about it."
"Finished it in two nights. The part about silences wrecked me. I kept seeing my own kitchen in every page."
"I did not expect much. I bought this after a stupid argument with my husband and figured I would skim it. I read it in two evenings. The section on silences made me cry, because I recognized exactly what has been happening in our house for years. This is not another self-help book. It is a book that teaches you how to look at the person across from you."
Ready to read the person beside you?
Available now on Amazon, in Kindle and paperback.
Georges Vahanian
Founder of MYMOONOVA. He writes about what drives people, from what they show to what they keep hidden.
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